Design happiness in the present, never postpone happiness for the future
Happ. 1Happiness and Despair
Happiness and Despair
Our first choice shall always be calm with patience
Happ. 2Remain calm; we cannot see, hear, communicate or understand if we are overwhelmed with reaction
Happ. 3Emotion may influence but shall never determine a decision
Happ. 4Subdue emotional thrust by remaining in non-action to allow the correct way to show itself; giving words is a form of action
Happ. 5We can live beyond through the influence of our actions and experiences
Happ. 6Experiences may be recorded or in memory forever
Happ. 7The lives we make for ourselves can always be with us in memory
Happ. 8Good and happiness can be as great as we make them in our life
Happ. 9Wrongdoings may be forgiven but if they are not at least attempted to be undone or prevented, they may haunt us
Happ. 10With forgiveness do not forget, remember wrongs and take note as done in history to understand how the wrong was motivated to use as a tool for prevention
Happ. 11History is a record of experience and development in what has been learned throughout time; history reveals reason to our timeline
Happ. 12Days do not reset time or reset us, they continue in connection on our path of life
Happ. 13Impose penalty but not excessively; do not excuse or justify wrong
Happ. 14Wrong cannot be justified, justification of wrong is an acceptance of complete defeat; good is relentless against wrong
Happ. 15Responding to wrong with a wrong of our own is a lessening of ourself
Happ. 16Fear is an emotion that is meant to help recognize true danger; when we break down emotionally this is a sign of fear from not understanding our feelings making us unable to manage our emotions
Happ. 17It is important to understand how fear and doubt will contaminate the mind and bring despair
Happ. 18Hope, desire, and dread are the same, they are fear
Happ. 19Create a growing foundation of expected good by doing tasks in the moment ridding you of stress and burden from wanting and worrying in the form of hope
Happ. 20Fear may cause importance of succeeding which will become the wrong of desire; the idea of having power is desire
Happ. 21Anticipation is blind and leads to dread which will misguide you; do not want before it is time, the right timeline happens on its own
Happ. 22Be prepared to push ahead on your path without visual progress and eliminate doubt; see past imperfection
Happ. 23There is good in every life, we must maintain good word to support balance; life and death will be announced, held in ceremony and the good of the life will be celebrated but none of the life should be mourned
Happ. 24Move forward without fear; let go of ungood and move forward in confidence without thought of procrastination or hesitation
Happ. 25We can be confident when we discover and acknowledge the limits of our comfortability, this will come with maturity; we must start with finding ourselves as we are
Happ. 26Learn how to be happy and learn how to stay happy independently; do not attempt to find dependence of happiness, good relationships run parallel
Happ. 27Be happy with others in good by enjoying our own company instead of expecting others to make us happy; we were not meant to burden others with being our source of happiness, happiness starts with ourselves and comes when we pursue good life
Happ. 28We can be happy together as ourselves, not by being together to specifically make each other happy; often we are simply in love with our feelings in the misconception that it is happiness, feelings stem from our selfish mind and are only temporarily satisfiable but not true happiness
Happ. 29Find your motivation of good and be determined in your good motivations and responsibilities with excitement; good inspiration supports balance
Happ. 30Contributing to good naturally establishes a growing foundation of happiness; lack of individual contribution to good responsibility, outside of caring for ourselves in good, obstructs happiness
Happ. 31Do right as we should, do not only do as we want, getting what we want in the moment should often be good planned coincidence; complete selfishness obstructs happiness, good planned coincidence takes following good with preparation and practice
Happ. 32Attempt to control your own personal circumstances by being well committed to your good responsibilities and obligations, and by trying to make the right decisions as life happens; we cannot control the personal circumstances of others
Happ. 33Hope should only be used as a manner to describe caring for the well being of others; we can only make our own individual decisions
Happ. 34When we truly care about others, we will address their decisions against right, not addressing the wrong is not caring; always be honest and address any topic with well mannered informing
Happ. 35Happiness is a mood achieved from good sincere relationships, and when satisfying good obligation and responsibility
Happ. 36Our mind is selfish enough to always want what it does not have, this can be misleading; the excess work of attempting to have it all is not necessary for clarity on what we want, what we actually want always concludes to be simple
Happ. 37The journey of finding ourselves and what we actually want is always closer than we realize; traveling is not the same as finding yourself, this can only be done from within ourselves, traveling is simply an experience
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